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Play Episode 36 Here To allow invite an involuntary experience with allowance or to wait and develop the attention more before doing so? That’s the choice point behind the slightly tacky phrase Observational Sufficiency. You know, whether they’re “paying enough […]

Play Episode 35 Here The ease and completeness with which a person can exit the interior experience (Vortexes) and return to Orientation points to several different directions within this choice point and suggest what to do next. At least that’s

On the deactivation/discharge side of a wave or arousal cycle, it’s a good idea to be watching out for the choice point of whether we should “stay inside” or “get the attention out” as in continuous and intermittent tracking.

Play Episode 33 Here Our sessions often contain multiple rounds of activation cycles, each of which has a beginning, middle and end. Before going on to the next “round” it’s a good idea to actively assess whether we should or

Play Episode 32 Here The 1st in a mini-series on “choice points” in our sessions. First with a little review of these points of no return and what they signify followed by a discussion of the choice to allow freeze/immobility

Play Episode 31 Here Sharing a simple personal reflection on just how international the SE learning community has become. Good to remember that we’re not alone.

Play Episode 30 Here An unappologetic peptalk for the SEP’s out there who are looking to improve their confidence when needing to direct or redirect their client’s attention. The Super Hero Pose might help.

Play Episode 29 Here Hopefully we’re all going to find these. The moments when we see the stress response complete with such an obvious naturalness that we know, through and through, that it’s simply waiting to happen. Here’s one of

Play Episode 28 Here The capacity for differentiation between ourselves and our clients is critically important. So too is our ability to appreciate what our clients are going through. Sometimes putting ourselves in their shoes, at least in our imagination,

Play Episode 27 Here Classically there’s transference and counter-transference and all the “stuff” that goes along with that. While avoiding those words I review some thoughts on how to name and keep the differentiation between ourselves and our clients when